UX Research · Social Design · Mobile App

HEAR
ME
OUT

"Social interaction is a basic human need, just like food and water." — Rebecca Saxe, MIT

RoleLead UX Designer & Researcher
ToolsFigma · Miro · Canva · CapCut
TypeSocial Wellness · Mobile App
PlatformiOS Mobile
Hear Me Out — app screens

The Brief

How might we foster
social connection?

As a lead designer, I navigated designing Hear Me Out — a service designed to revolutionize the way we engage and connect in the digital era. As our world becomes increasingly interconnected, the need for meaningful social interactions is more crucial than ever.

We are solving for social connectedness by developing effective and accessible means of communication that allow individuals to maintain social connection, access necessary support, and combat the negative effects of isolation.

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The Problem

A silent epidemic

1 in 6Americans feel lonely or isolated (Cigna)
50%US adults report experiencing loneliness
15×Cigarettes/day equivalent health risk from isolation
20 yrsSocial connectedness has been declining

Research Findings

6 factors affecting
social wellbeing

01
Loneliness

Highest among young adults and lower-income households. Being married or having a domestic partner lowers the chances of experiencing loneliness.

02
Health Impact

Social isolation raises cardiovascular risks and accelerates dementia and cognitive decline. Social support lowers the risk of health problems significantly.

03
Stigmatization

Stigma can devastate individuals, leading to social exclusion and depression. Trust is the main barrier in open discussion about loneliness.

04
Body Image & Identity

Social isolation in youth impacts academic and cognitive development. Social media and peer pressure fuel anxiety around body image in teens.

05
Depression

Adults who always or often feel anxious, depressed, or lonely — a growing percentage across all age groups, with young adults most affected.

06
Economic & Social Status

Individual and community factors shape social connections. Young city dwellers are at higher risk of loneliness despite being surrounded by people.

Research Scale

Deep, rigorous
research

This wasn't surface-level research. We went deep — into academic papers, observational studies, expert interviews, diary studies, and live field research across New York.

420+
Articles read
36hrs
4 weeks desk research
40+
Research papers
5hrs+
Observational videos
2
Seminars attended

Field Research

We went out
into the world

Video 01 · Sept 14, 2023 · Baltimore, Maryland
Can strangers talk about loneliness?

We placed a simple sign in public inviting open conversation and observed for 3 hours. Key finding: trust is the main barrier. People wanted to talk but feared judgment. The presence of an invitation alone prompted significant engagement.

✓ Simple signs prompt engagement
✓ Trust = the missing ingredient
✓ Campus community potential
Video 02 · Sept 15, 2023 · Brooklyn, NYC
Music shows as social catalysts

Observed socializing behaviors at a live music event over 4 hours. Found that shared experiences lower the barrier to conversation. People gathered at focal points hoping to connect but struggled to initiate.

✓ Shared context reduces friction
✓ Gathering points create opportunity
✓ Initiation is the hard part
Video 03 · Sept 17, 2023 · NYC
Sitar for Mental Health — music connects

Attended a concert specifically designed to promote mental wellbeing. Discovered that music is the universal connector — especially for elderly people living alone. When the artist asked people to interact with their neighbor, it worked immediately.

✓ Music = universal bridge
✓ Structured prompts work
✓ Elderly most isolated
"

Social contact alone is not the cure to social isolation. It's meaningful social contact.

Howard Steele · Clinical Psychologist & Professor

The Solution

Hear Me Out —
music as the bridge

Hear Me Out uses the music created by users to foster connection — sending it as a pop-up when a new user signs up. Instead of a generic "welcome" message, new members receive a personal audio message from an existing member of the community.

This transforms a cold digital onboarding into a warm, human moment — the kind of meaningful social contact that research shows actually combats loneliness.

🎵 Music-powered connections
🤝 Like-minded community
💜 Your wellbeing deserves more
Hear Me Out app screens

Diary Study

3 days in a
user's world

Day 1
Introduction

Understanding the user and their motivations — getting an idea of their current routine and social habits.

Day 2
Task

Understanding how the user feels about carrying out tasks that require effort to socialize — the friction points.

Day 3
Reflection

Getting an understanding of their idea of social isolation and how they currently tackle it on their own.

"Errand hang — it breaks the monotonous cycle and makes my work a little interesting. Interactions with alumni and peers give a sense of belonging, connection, knowledge, and most importantly hope."

Diary Study Participant

Key Learnings

What we discovered

01
Initiation is the barrier

People want to connect but don't know how to start. The app needed to remove this friction by creating a warm, low-stakes first moment of connection.

02
Music transcends words

Across all three field observations, music consistently lowered social barriers. It became the natural medium for the app's connection mechanism.

03
Meaningful > frequent

Howard Steele's insight proved true in user research — quality of connection matters far more than quantity. Hear Me Out prioritizes depth over volume.